early memories

topic posted Mon, January 24, 2005 - 1:37 PM by  offlineKayaSattva
I'd guess that much of our kinky selves took root during our childhood years...

What are your earliest memories that you can look at now as an adult and say "Damn! I was kinky even back then!".
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KayaSattva
SF Bay Area
  • Re: early memories

    Wed, January 26, 2005 - 1:03 AM
    one of the earliest ways i learned to masturbate was practicing the middle splits for ballet. i'd spread my legs, pancake my body forward, and the pain of the splits would be overcome by the pleasure of cumming from my clit rubbing on the floor. it was funny: in ballet class when the teacher asked who'd practiced the splits, NOone had except me. i knew i had to be careful not to have 'that' happen while in class.

    as a kid - like around 9 or so - i'd make myself get into a cold bath (that was a turn on), or hold my breath for a minute, or point my toes really long & hard til i came. :)
    • Re: early memories

      Mon, January 31, 2005 - 8:52 AM
      First day of Kindergarten I insisted that I wear the 2 size too big hand me down go-go boots that my older cousin gave me (after wearing them all day during some family gathering); sure signs of a future boot fetishist/enthusiast! I also recall getting boys to give me a ride on their backs pretending to be some Queen riding on an elephant. My idea of "playing house" back then was to tie up my friend to the post of my parents' bed and pretend to come home from work to my husband already waiting for me in the bedroom.

      Haa! I get such a kick out of remembering these crazy things.
  • Re: early memories

    Wed, February 16, 2005 - 7:52 PM
    I was in High school when a guy put me over his knee and gave me a spanking. I don't know if I liked it or not, but he sure did.

    Sincerely,
    Ms. Heart
    • Re: early memories

      Fri, February 18, 2005 - 2:05 PM
      I remember loving to play house in elementary school. The "twins" as we called them lived down the street and we often played in their garage. Kids being exploratory creatures we or they would often end up naked and I use to like to tie them up and make them sit in the closet. No matter what we did somehow "the twins" always ened up tied together sitting in the closet <giggle> They were always up for the game but then they would always at some point start saying I'm scared ..we gonna get in trouble..we should stop so the game never quite got under way past the closet. I was never sure really where it was all going but we all thot it was great fun! As a young teen, I grew up in a community with few people of color. So the few teens of color in my area gravitated together. We were great sista friends. At around age 12 or 13 my sista friends and I would get together after school for dance sessions and just to hang out and try to be cool but at some point the dance sessions would turn into spankfests...with no real rhyme or reason. I don't quite recollect how it all started. Simply a means of amusement and entertainment who knows! Just a few teenage gurls taking turns spanking the hell out of each other. We use to have challenges like who could spank the hardest or who could take hits the hardest. In retrospect,it was insanely funny. I have had the good fortune to run into some of those old neighborhood teen friends now and again and not to my surprise quite a few of the "spanking club" are at least a little bit kinky..go figure.....Shdiva Black

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